you can’t alter society, or hinder people in general from being helpless and vulgar—from letting themselves fall into slavery to the things about them if they are rich, or from aping the habits and vices of the rich if they are poor. but you may live simple, manly lives yourselves, speaking your own thought, paying your own way, and doing your own work, whatever that may be. you will remain gentlemen so long as you follow these rules, if you have to sweep a crossing for your livelihood. you will not remain gentlemen in anything but the name, if you depart from them, though you may be set to govern a kingdom.