i would if i could omit one thing that i must tell you here, because it goes so close to the very core of all this book has to convey. i wish i could leave it out altogether. i wish i could simplify my story by smoothing out this wrinkle at least and obliterating a thing that was at once very real and very ugly. you see i had at last struggled up to a sustaining idea, to a conception of work and duty to which i could surely give my life. i had escaped from my pit so far. and it was natural that now with something to give i should turn not merely for consolation and service but for help and fellowship to that dear human being across the seas who had offered them to me so straightly and sweetly. all that is brave and good and as you would have me, is it not? only, dear son, that is not all the truth.

there was still in my mind, for long it remained in my mind, a bitterness against mary. i had left her, i had lost her, we had parted; but from germany to america and all through america and home again to my marriage and with me after my marriage, it rankled that she could still go on living a life independent of mine. i had not yet lost my desire to possess her, to pervade and dominate her existence; my resentment that though she loved me she had first not married me and afterwards not consented to come away with me was smouldering under the closed hatches of my mind. and so while the better part of me was laying hold of this work because it gave me the hope of a complete distraction and escape from my narrow and jealous self, that lower being of the pit was also rejoicing in the great enterprises before me and in the marriage upon which i had now determined, because it was a last trampling upon my devotion to mary, because it defied and denied some lurking claims to empire i could suspect in her. i want to tell you that particularly because so i am made, so you are made, so most of us are made. there is scarcely a high purpose in all the world that has no dwarfish footman at its stirrup, no base intention over which there does not ride at least the phantom of an angel.

constantly in those days, it seems to me now, i was haunted by my own imagination of mary amiably reconciled to justin, bearing him children, forgetful of or repudiating all the sweetness, all the wonder and beauty we had shared.... it was an unjust and ungenerous conception, i knew it for a caricature even as i entertained it, and yet it tormented me. it stung me like a spur. it kept me at work, and if i strayed into indolence brought me back to work with a mind galled and bleeding....